I have been thinking of all the attention
we give a first/only born.
We are going to do this right
Raise them better than we were raised.
Create this little perfect human.
Teach them like we wish we were taught.
Immediately stop any negative traits
We wonder at their inate intelligence
Try to see that they are happy, always
Shower them with attention
Praise each step of growth….
Then the second child is born…
Or life happens and we change jobs
Or issues with our partner
Or somebody gets very sick
Or dies….
And we become distracted from our worship and wonder of this child.
They might begin to feel extra,
Unnecessary,
in the way,
unimportant…
Sadly, begin to doubt their worth.
Feel under-valued…
Less than……
Not understanding the disconnect
Has nothing to do with them.
Could this possibly be the source, the birth of deression?
